Dutch men dating culture
For foreign women this can prove to be quite exasperating.
Either way Dutch men tend to take a more passive approach to the love game.As a result some of the usual European gender rules have got a little blurred and the rules of romance are a little different in Holland.For instance, whilst in most of the world it’s up to the man to swallow his fear and start up a conversation or ask someone to dance, in Holland the women tend to be a little more forthcoming.Part of women asserting themselves involves throwing out the old dependence on men to be financially strong and most Dutch seem to prefer a 50-50 approach. True to their pragmatic selves, the Dutch flirt in a way that resemble negotiations. Once chemistry is confirmed both express their agendas and negotiations can begin.
Flirting might be defined as the delicate art of toying with assumed attractions, of trifling with desires, or as a fun and creative way of discovering just who the other person is and what they feel for you. Location and time of next date, some go as far as stating what they expect and what the other should expect.They look back apparently enjoying the eye contact but then mostly fail to take the logical next step – to approach and flirt a little.