Dating at 40 50 and 60
Her life isn’t going the way she wants and she just can’t figure out why.With men, she might complain that they just “don’t get her,” but the truth is that she’s giving them every reason to head for the hills with her off-handed comments and negativity.Oh, and girlfriend, you can learn a TON from the comments men have left below! He won’t be impressed when he finds out that you weren’t genuine. We already have plenty of people to discuss “Orange is the New Black” with. But maybe they would be even more pleasant with someone who also enjoys it.Women that a man can learn something from are truly more attractive. I have been divorced for about 5 years and it was an ugly one. Custody battle, asset division, debt allocation, none of it was easy. We have always been civil in front of the kids, but text messages were not civil.She’s looking for her guy to be interesting, keep her laughing, ask her all about herself, and give her butterflies…all on the first date. That man then makes a poor impression (understandably), and the date is chalked up to another “he just wasn’t right for me” experience.The Wow Me Woman is often single for a very, very long time.She hasn’t mastered the life skill of introspection, so she’s blinded by her bitterness.It doesn’t occur to her that she might be the problem even though every date and relationship seems to end the same way.
The wall she has erected is just too high for him to climb in order to get to the other side.Since trust and affection are what men yearn for from women, he usually does her a favor and leaves…hence rendering her “right” once again.