Dating a girl that goes to another school
When you get together, remember that as difficult and maybe counter-intuitive as it seems, you should do your best to dial down your emotions when sharing your thoughts.Obviously, your emotions are involved in the whole thing, otherwise, you wouldn’t have written to us, but they can sometimes cloud the issue and distract from what you want to accomplish.There’s simply no better way to make sure the message you have in your head and heart gets communicated as clearly as possible. This is something that requires the whole person — facial expressions, body language, voice inflections — you get the point.Then contact her and ask if you can meet her for a short conversation somewhere (in a public place) for a very casual but time-sensitive visit.
Meanwhile, I’d give her lots of space to reduce whatever awkwardness there might be when all three of you are in the same location.
So how do you handle such a sensitive and possibly boat-rocking conversation? First, start praying now and ask God to guide this process and to lead you in a way that pleases His heart and brings Him glory.