A short guy dating a tall girl
What are we saying when we say we want a big man to make us feel tiny?
Are we saying that we believe that it's sexually ideal that women take up as little space as possible, that we're at our most attractive when we look itty bitty compared to our male partner?
Trying to reconcile height disparities while boning involved a lot of crouching on unstable structures made out of stacked pillows and crawling around on tables, trying to use my D in high school Geometry to make all the angles line up. It turned out that he loved me in heels — and also, he had made his peace with his height and his body, and didn't need me to change the way I dressed or the things I liked to make him feel more like a man.
With a short dude, there's no problem — all your parts align, and you're free to get creative, instead of spending all your time just trying to get your genitals on the same visual plane. Short guys know they are short, and very few of them will demand that you make concessions about it (the ones who do are jerks, obvi).
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While I totally understand that short guys don´t have it easy to attract women, however we still have some great advantages of being short.
Even if the girl wants to continue with the smaller guy, the teasing and dirty look from friends and passerby make the girl feel negative and it also discourages the man's ego.
Many tall girls are left out alone as when they disclose their height, the guy never calls back.
Tall girl and short guy couple is less as girls have a pre-set notion that the guy should be taller than her and when they come across short guys, they tend to blow away.You don't need a women's studies degree to know that that's whack.